I always had a question. Why do people get irritated? Is the one alleged as irritant, really an irritant. The mind is almost always the irritant. The ones whom you point fingers to are just the reasons that you find to justify your behavior.There is no point in it.
I've seen a few kind of irritations in my life and I have lived through it. I hope there are others who disagree with my views so that I can enter meaningful conversations. A few type of people who irritate you.
1. The ones who use the 'F' word or one of the numerous words in English used to insult a person. But then, when they use it, they don't understand they're just making themselves look imbecile. I just ignore them. If I get irritated by them then that would mean I am accepting the adjectives they give me. I consider these people too immature to accept them.
2. The ones who don't listen to anyone else's view point but consider only themselves right. Ignore them again. They consider themselves the brain tanks. The catch here is that their brain actually looks like the inside of an empty tank. They don't understand that there are two sides of a coin. They live their life in an arrogant bliss of ignorance. I should say, all they do is to try sell themselves.
3. The kind who live every moment of their lives to prove themselves. They say they stand by certain line of thought, values, consideration to environment, for the fellow human beings etc etc. This category turns into the category (1) once they see their position is challenged. They just can't stand themselves being criticized neither can they stand a different view point from theirs. I accept that I may be no better than them because I myself break these good Samaritan qualities expected of an individual of a civilized society. My question to them is do you always live by what you say? If not, you're just a plain hypocrite and nothing more.
4. The ones who criticize you. When you are in the teens you rebel against them. But when you grow up, you need to accept them and listen to them. When you listen, you get a chance to correct yourself or to correct them in case they're wrong. But there is no point if one of these are from the category (3).
5. The ones who leave trash everywhere. All they do is show their supremacy and that too by hurting everyone around. They try to give as much pain to the ones around and interfere in any kind of happiness others may be involved without any provocation. You need to talk to them peacefully once and try to correct them. Second time you can be harsh with your words. Third time, don't wait. Knee down, make a low blow. While he falls down on the ground and wriggles in pain, don't waste your time. Kick him in the guts again and again till he pleads and apologizes. Warn him against any more attempts. Here mind is certainly not the irritant, because you're giving them a chance to leave you alone. But they begged for it.
6. The ones who think world revolves around them. There is no respect at all for any other individuals. Let them live in their world. Just ignore them. Move to another planetary system.
A Bible proverb says: "A man's discretion makes him slow to anger, And it is his glory to overlook a transgression".
So control your anger and the irritation will go through. It makes you wise and prudent when you learn to control your mind. The mind has great capabilities which are beyond even the explanation of science. Explore it.
I've seen a few kind of irritations in my life and I have lived through it. I hope there are others who disagree with my views so that I can enter meaningful conversations. A few type of people who irritate you.
1. The ones who use the 'F' word or one of the numerous words in English used to insult a person. But then, when they use it, they don't understand they're just making themselves look imbecile. I just ignore them. If I get irritated by them then that would mean I am accepting the adjectives they give me. I consider these people too immature to accept them.
2. The ones who don't listen to anyone else's view point but consider only themselves right. Ignore them again. They consider themselves the brain tanks. The catch here is that their brain actually looks like the inside of an empty tank. They don't understand that there are two sides of a coin. They live their life in an arrogant bliss of ignorance. I should say, all they do is to try sell themselves.
3. The kind who live every moment of their lives to prove themselves. They say they stand by certain line of thought, values, consideration to environment, for the fellow human beings etc etc. This category turns into the category (1) once they see their position is challenged. They just can't stand themselves being criticized neither can they stand a different view point from theirs. I accept that I may be no better than them because I myself break these good Samaritan qualities expected of an individual of a civilized society. My question to them is do you always live by what you say? If not, you're just a plain hypocrite and nothing more.
4. The ones who criticize you. When you are in the teens you rebel against them. But when you grow up, you need to accept them and listen to them. When you listen, you get a chance to correct yourself or to correct them in case they're wrong. But there is no point if one of these are from the category (3).
5. The ones who leave trash everywhere. All they do is show their supremacy and that too by hurting everyone around. They try to give as much pain to the ones around and interfere in any kind of happiness others may be involved without any provocation. You need to talk to them peacefully once and try to correct them. Second time you can be harsh with your words. Third time, don't wait. Knee down, make a low blow. While he falls down on the ground and wriggles in pain, don't waste your time. Kick him in the guts again and again till he pleads and apologizes. Warn him against any more attempts. Here mind is certainly not the irritant, because you're giving them a chance to leave you alone. But they begged for it.
6. The ones who think world revolves around them. There is no respect at all for any other individuals. Let them live in their world. Just ignore them. Move to another planetary system.
A Bible proverb says: "A man's discretion makes him slow to anger, And it is his glory to overlook a transgression".
So control your anger and the irritation will go through. It makes you wise and prudent when you learn to control your mind. The mind has great capabilities which are beyond even the explanation of science. Explore it.
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